Saturday, December 09, 2006

God and Country

OK, so no one responded to my short and pithy questions last week. Getting a dialog going here is even harder than on Sunday mornings at Sunday School. I guess you are all just peeping in to see what's going on.

So here's what is going on this week: God and country. What does it mean to be an American Christian? What does it mean to be a Christian American? What is our allegiance as Christians to the United States of America? How does Christianity affect our view of those outside our borders? Does the Bible give us any answers to these questions?

I'd tell you the answers, but I need to wait until after tomorrow (Sunday) morning to see if we figure out what they are.

Thursday, November 30, 2006

Legislating morality

So can the government force morality on the citizens it governs by passing laws that make immorality illegal and subject to fines and punishments? That's what we'll be discussing this week. Anyone care to comment? Anyone anywhere? Hellooooooo? Is anyone out there? Anyone at all?

Sunday, November 26, 2006

Where do we go from here?

Our last week in 1 Thessalonians. It has been a challenging unit.

Last Sunday morning we started with the question: "If someone asks you ... What does the Bible say about ___________? ... how do they fill in the blank?" The rhetorical answer was "the end of the world" in order to transition into the 2nd coming aspect of the lesson from 1 Thessolonians 4-5. The actual responses, however, resulted in a decision to take a look at some of the questions people ask us about the Bible and what the Bible really says about those issues. So we won't be using the WordAction curriculum for the winter quarter.

I'm starting to dig out books on issues from the Dialog series. It's interesting that the book from the church library with the closest match to the issues brought up last week is the oldest. It's not actually from the Dialog Series or even the Nazarene Publishing House. I suspect it predates the Dialog Series. It's from the "Contemporary Discussion Series" from Baker Book House and the copyright date is 1969. The subjects addressed include: gambling, social responsibility, abortion, the threat of technology, modesty in dress, and church music.

For today, we're still in 1 Thessalonians, finishing out the end of chapter 5. Verse 23 is a golden text for Nazarenes that has been used as a launching pad for untold promises about "sanctification". The rest of my group hasn't been subjected to nearly so much in that area as I have and I try to be careful to not spend my time reacting to offenses that they haven't encountered. Fortunately, it's not the only verse in this morning's scripture focus.

Friday, November 10, 2006

Holiness and sex

In 1 Thessalonians 4:3 Paul explains that sanctification is the will of God. The first aspect of sanctification he mentions is avoiding sexual immorality.

There is a universal innate ethic in humanity that tells us that some things are right and others are wrong. I assume that studies have been done to determine what activities jar the sensitive conscience in every culture. Taking what belongs to and is treasured by another might be an example of a universal ‘wrong’. I don’t know. I haven’t reviewed such studies.

This week’s lesson indicates that in the culture of the Thessalonians, sexual indulgence was considered ‘normal’, acceptable, even sacred. Paul has explained to the believers there that this is not the case, that doing what is right in the sight of God includes being sexually pure. Now he’s reminding them of this teaching.

I wonder: Is sexual morality part of our built-in moral system or is it defined by culture? Were the pagans in Thessalonica aware at some level that their sexual indulgence was wrong? Or did they consider it simply satisfying a natural physical hunger with no more moral significance than eating an apple?

Unlike swans, humans do not have a natural fidelity to a single, lifetime mate. Rather, there is an inclination to be promiscuous, to consider every attractive member of the opposite sex (or even the same sex) to have potential as a sexual partner, even after having committed oneself to marriage. How universal is the moral call to do right by denying that natural inclination? Was Paul bringing the Thessalonian Christians back to a known but suppressed moral standard or was he introducing a completely foreign moral code with no natural support even by the sensitized conscience?

Perhaps we could find the answer in sociology. Or maybe sexual morality is actually an extension of love and needs no separate code to define it. Love directs us to value others and seek their highest welfare. Sexual indulgence uses others without valuing them. Someone with two partners sets them in competition with each other, both vying for the undivided attention of the beloved. Even if those partners don’t know about each other, the person whose bed they share is depriving his or her lovers of pure (unadulterated) love. It seems that true love for others would naturally and necessarily lead to sexual purity, to imposing self-control on natural urges out of concern for the happiness and well-being of others, both one's marriage partner (present or future) and the attractive and available person. It seems that Paul was connecting dots for the new believers that would have naturally come together for them over time.

God is holy; God is love. Being holy, set apart, sanctified, means loving God and loving others. This leads inevitably to sexual purity, controlling and channeling our urges to procreate into committed and exclusive relationships.

What do you think?

Sunday, November 05, 2006

Running behind

My goal for this blog is to comment on upcoming lessons from the adult WordAction curriculum rather than past lessons. However, this past week (1) life didn't provide much time for composing blog entries (2) I had difficulty getting a handle on the lesson. I hope to do better this week.

I did want to make a couple of a posthumous comments on today's (Nov 5) lesson. I use the term posthumous because I feel like I pretty much sucked the life out of the lesson in my weak attempt to present it. It spoke of the pastoral relationship and I gave in to the ploy of pulling in an illustration of a poor example of pastoring from this week's news. After all, it doesn’t hurt to talk about what people are already talking about in the Sunday School setting where we can approach the discussion from a biblical point of view. However, no one in this morning’s group had heard anything about it, leaving me playing the role of a gossip, revealing the shocking truth of someone else’s sins. I revealed nothing that hasn’t been verified as truth by reliable sources and actually less than is now verified, but I wish I had simply left it alone. Examples of exemplary living would have left a much better taste in my mouth.

Paul amazes me in his confidence that the best life the people in his churches can live is in imitation of the way he and his fellow evangelists live. I’m much more inclined to hope that anyone who might look to me for guidance would listen to the best of the words I say rather than imitating my practices. I know that I have weaknesses that sometimes make me a poor model of Christian living. How would I ever point to myself as an example for others? Rather, my goal is to point people to Jesus as the model for holy living.

I am reminded today of words from one of my favorite DC Talk songs:

Is this one for the people?
Is this one for the Lord?
Or do I simply serenade for things I must afford?
You can jumble them together, my conflict still remains
Holiness is calling, in the midst of courting fame

Cause I see the trust in their eyes
Though the sky is falling
They need your love in their lives
Compromise is calling

(chorus)
What if I stumble, what if I fall?
What if I lose my step and I make fools of us all?
Will the love continue when my walk becomes a crawl?
What if I stumble, and what if I fall?

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

The Fellowship of Suffering

I enjoyed Proverbs. Now it’s time to move on to 1 Thessalonians.

Dr. Jesse Middendorf writes in this week’s exposition: "It has always been true: Shared suffering produces deep relationship."

Shared suffering. Suffering together.

Have you ever been part of a discussion that questioned the significance of our lack of persecution in North America as Christians? I get the feeling that getting along well with those outside the faith community is a sign of anemic faith. Yet, I’ve seen "persecuted" American Christians. Their offensiveness seems to have little to do with being devoted disciples of Jesus Christ, living a cruciform lifestyle. Rather, they’re pushing up against the rules, testing the boundaries and then yelling foul when the boundaries push back. Maybe my faith is too anemic to recognize true discipleship, but I have yet to see obnoxiousness on any list of biblical virtues.

So ... if we’re not suffering persecution because of our faith, how do we develop the deep relationships that are byproducts of shared suffering? Perhaps the answer lies in the groaning of the creation around us.

There is no shortage of suffering in this world, even in North America. Perhaps it’s the child next door who seldom hears a kind word. Or the widow whose children are consuming what few resources she has and leaving her destitute. Maybe it’s the teenage girl who is already losing the glow of youth as she seeks for love in all the wrong places. Or the neighbors whose marriage is slowly dying with no visible remedy. Or the man whose beloved wife is wasting away with cancer. Or the family with no steady income about to lose their home. People all around us are in agony as they face crushing circumstances with no means of escape.

I confess that it’s easy for me to back away from people in great pain. Hearing their stories makes me feel like I ought to do something to help them. How can I listen to their pain and then do nothing more than wish them well as I walk away? Yet, what can I do? I can’t cure cancer or reverse death or fix broken relationships or provide financial support for all the poor people I know. Having such limited resources makes me want to cross to the other side when I see hurting people, as did the priest in the story of the good Samaritan.

Perhaps this is where shared suffering comes in. All around us people are in pain. Rather than being related to their faith, it’s often obvious that sin is involved. Yet, here is genuine suffering – broken hearts, frustration, tears, hopelessness. Is this a suffering in which we can share as disciples of Jesus Christ? Isn’t that what he did? He saw a widow walking in the funeral procession of her only son and stopped and got involved. He wouldn’t have had to do that. He was a busy man. He had his own challenges. But he had compassion on the woman and stopped to restore her hope.

We don’t have the same resources Jesus had. Yet, even his were limited by time and space. He couldn’t personally interact with even a fraction of the multitudes of suffering people in Palestine. Sure, he fed 5,000 people – one meal; or maybe two. But they were hungry again a day or two later and where was Jesus? In another place, walking into the suffering of a different set of people.

Perhaps it’s not only suffering for being a Christian that deepens our relationships, but also drawing alongside those who are suffering the consequences of sin or of simply being human and stepping into their agony with them. When Paul wrote in Philippians (3:10) that he wanted to know "the fellowship of sharing in [Christ's] sufferings," could sharing in the sufferings of those around him have been the avenue to fulfilling that desire?

What do you think?

Friday, October 20, 2006

The wisdom of this world

The apostle Paul wrote:

For the message of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God. For it is written:
"I will destroy the wisdom of the wise;
the intelligence of the intelligent I will frustrate." (1CO 1:18-19)
Jesus said:

"I praise you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and learned, and revealed them to little children." (MT 11:25)
And:

"I tell you the truth, it is hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven. Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God." (MT 19:23-24)
Jesus does NOT indicate that it is difficult for those who are wise in the eyes of this world to enter the kingdom, only for those who are rich. Yet, I wonder ... is intelligence and learning as much a barrier to entering the kingdom as riches? It seems that it may be. After all, where does the light of faith burn the brightest? Is it in academic settings? Among scientists? Among philosophers? Or is it among those who study less and have a simple faith? Is it as tempting to rely on superior intellect for understanding of life as it is to rely on riches for security?

Who are the little children to whom the Father reveals the secrets of the kingdom? Is it those with much learning? Or is it those who don't understand many things but who choose to believe God and trust him?

The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom,
and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding. (PR 9:10)
How many people with strong intellects are willing to set aside their logic and their grasp on reality and embrace the foolishness of the cross where, as Derek Webb puts it, things are upside down?

What looks like weakness can do anything
And what looks like foolishness is understanding
When what is powerful has not come to fight
It looks like you’re going to war
But you lay down your life. (From What Looks Like Love)
How many are willing to ‘buy into’ the precepts of God and start with the fear of the Lord in order to pursue and find true wisdom? How many will set aside what they have learned with their heads in order to start thinking with their hearts? How can we open doors for the intelligent into the wisdom of God which sometimes looks so very foolish? Should we expect the church to include few who are “wise by human standards”? (see 1 CO 1:26) Is there a way to minister effectively to the educated among us, to those who have confidence in their intellect to reveal the ways of this world to them?

What do you think?

Friday, October 13, 2006

Good versus Evil

I mentioned a couple of weeks ago when considering the nature of the poor among us that good and evil seem so much easier to sort out in stories about oppressed poor people than in real life. Actually, it doesn’t take poverty to complicate the division between good and evil in our day-to-day lives.

The Proverbs (and Psalms) speak often of the reward of righteous living and the ultimate destruction of evildoers. The world seems to be divided easily into good and evil in these passages. In Matthew 25, Jesus speaks of the “sheep” and “goats” being divided at the end of the age. Again, the split seems so clean from the viewpoint of the King. However, the righteous and unrighteous are both surprised by the acts assigned to them. It seems that the division between good and evil that is so easily made by our Lord is not nearly so obvious to the casual human observer.

Drama reflects the division of good and evil. I don’t watch much television. Sometimes if I happen by when my husband has the TV on, I’ll stop and watch for a while. Of course, I’m coming into the middle of the story, which prompts me to occasionally ask annoying questions such as, “Is he a good guy or a bad guy? Are we supposed to like him?” It’s not often that the reply is ambiguous. Once in a while there’s a complex character that isn’t easily identified as either good or bad, but those are exceptions.

I find it interesting that we so easily accept the presence of villains in drama, whether they’re oppressing the poor or plotting murder. Do we observe such people in our daily lives? How many of your acquaintances would you classify as bloodthirsty? Do you know anyone who fits the label of murderous?

The evildoer in this week’s passage has characteristics such as concealing his sins, hardening his heart, lacking judgment, and being unconcerned about justice for the poor. I can certainly think of people who fit that description at times. I might slip in there somewhere myself from time to time. However, many of the people I know who sometimes speak harshly and hurt others and harden their hearts toward people don’t fit the “bad guy” image of drama well at all. Many times they are just ordinary people who are “out of sorts” for some reason.

An elderly man of my acquaintance is rude and demanding. He’s much more concerned about justice for himself than for the poor or anyone else. Any cordial words that come out of his mouth seem designed to bend the will of those around him to meet his needs. As far as I can tell he doesn’t have many friends and my natural inclination certainly wouldn’t lead me to number myself among the few. I’m polite to him if I can’t avoid him, but I prefer to avoid him and save myself the bother of trying to be patient with his manipulative demands. Is this an evildoer? He certainly wouldn’t take kindly to being characterized as such. In fact, he told me just recently that he is a Christian.

I often observe parents speaking harshly to their young children. The child is crying and the impatient parent responds with unkind words and threats as to what will happen if the tears do not stop. I observe no compassion toward the little one, only a hard face. Are these evildoers? Hardness of heart and harsh words directed toward innocent little children is surely one of the worst examples of unkindness, yet how many parents can claim to be innocent in this area?

I meet few people who readily confess their failures. Most seem to prefer to put on the best face possible and conceal their darker side. Are these evildoers?

I can’t tell that compassion and vulnerability and good judgment are more prevalent among those who claim to be righteous or that hardness of heart and disregard for the poor and innocent victims is any less evident in the church than elsewhere.

Until we find a surefire way to distinguish the good from the evil, maybe we can fall back on Romans 3:10, where Paul reminds us that “There is no one righteous, not even one.” Rather than attempt to classify ourselves among the exceptionally righteous, maybe we need to admit that we sometimes fall into the characteristics of the wicked and experience the consequences of wrongdoing. When we harden our hearts toward the poor and oppressed, we can expect the natural consequences for such an attitude as revealed in scripture.

What do you think?

Wednesday, October 04, 2006

The delight of the Lord

Proverbs 11:1 reads:

The LORD abhors dishonest scales,
but accurate weights are his delight.


The delight of the LORD. You don’t hear much about that. Or at least I don’t. There’s the fear of the LORD, the wrath of the LORD, the justice and righteousness of the LORD. There are things that are an abomination to the LORD. On the other side, the LORD is loving, kind, compassionate, and faithful. But delighted? What sorts of things delight the LORD? Are there other things, besides accurate weights, that bring joy and pleasure to the heart of God?

Psalm 147:10 tells us what does not delight God:

His pleasure is not in the strength of the horse,
nor his delight in the legs of a man;


The next verse tells us what does delight Him:

the LORD delights in those who fear him,
who put their hope in his unfailing love.


Do we delight the LORD God Almighty? Can we delight Him?

It certainly seems that it is possible. All we have to do is revere and trust Him.


So do we? Is God delighted with many of us? Does He rejoice when we turn our faces toward Him and come into His presence?


One of my favorite verses is Psalm 25:14:

The LORD confides in those who fear him;
he makes his covenant known to them.


I can see the picture – mighty king and lowly servant walking down the road together. The king draws up close to the servant and, lowering his voice, shares what he is thinking with him. O to be that servant, to find such a bond with my King, to be the one of whom it is said:

He will take great delight in you,
he will quiet you with his love,
he will rejoice over you with singing."
(Zephaniah 3:17)


A song has been stuck in my head today. One line says, "... keep me so close to you that I feel the throb of the great heart of God..." That requires a close proximity, a delight in being together.

We’re often reminded by those who exhort us to draw closer to God of how far we fall short of his glory. I wish I could find a George MacDonald quote I vaguely remember about how God is never satisfied but easily pleased. Here’s the closest I can come with an internet search:

That no obedience but a perfect one will satisfy God, I hold with all my heart and strength; but that there is none else that He cares for, is one of the lies of the enemy. What father is not pleased with the first tottering attempt of his little one to walk? What father would be satisfied with anything but the manly step of the full-grown son?

Yes, I often stumble and fall. I am a child. But as I get back up and try again, as I trust my Father and hold Him in full reverence, as I seek integrity in my business dealings, I rejoice in these verses that hold out the possibility of being a delight to the LORD, even before I reach full maturity.

Thursday, September 28, 2006

The poor among us

Have you watched the Disney animated version of “Robin Hood”? The handsome and debonair hero, a fox, follows the classic pattern of robbing the rich to give to the poor. And we get to meet the poor of Nottingham: the honest laborer with a broken leg; and the “widder lady” with her three well-behaved young bunnies. If we consider the matter at all, we can figure out why these people are poor. They don’t have the means to adequately support themselves and their families. The sheriff who takes what little they have to add to the coffers of Prince John is a villain worthy of the title.

Good and evil are so easy to sort out in such stories. The poor are honest, decent, hard-working folk under the oppression of the greedy and cold-hearted rich and powerful. It’s easy to see this same divide in Proverbs, where the rich and powerful are warned that God himself will take up for the poor.

If only life were so simple. Have you seen the faces of the poor in your community? If you have, you may wonder if everyone living in poverty is as decent, honest, and hard-working as the citizens of Nottingham. Are they poor because they have no path out of poverty or because they are disinclined to follow a path that requires perseverance and hard work? Have they discovered that surviving on handouts is easier and more pleasant than working?

Who “plunders the poor” (see Proverbs 22:23) in our society? Is it the faceless tax-collecting government agencies? Is it the equally faceless banks who foreclose on unpaid mortgages? Is it states who foster the belief among those who have little that a lottery ticket is their best route to financial freedom? Is it us?

If we listen long to advocates for the global poor, we will hear about poor labor conditions in developing nations where large companies take advantage of the poor by giving them low-paying jobs in unhealthy work environments. We’re urged to demand that such businesses change their ways. So how should that affect our shopping decisions? When choosing between a pair of athletic shoes made by an oppressed worker in China and one of equal quality for more money made by a union laborer in Cleveland, what is the best stewardship of our resources? How do we know as we examine the shoes whether the Chinese worker is oppressed or blessed by the opportunity to exchange hard work for money? How do we know that the Cleveland worker isn’t somehow being oppressed by his/her employer? How much research are we obliged to do into the companies behind the goods we buy? Can we trust those who would do our research for us? If we looked at the same data they have and talked to the people involved, would we draw the same conclusions they do?

“The poor you will always have with you...” (Matthew 26:11). What keeps them in poverty and how can we best help them out rather than tighten the chains around them? Are they oppressed or lazy? Are they in need of charity or of healing and a push toward responsibility and self-sufficiency? How do we make sure our charity is a boost out of poverty rather than enabling those who choose a destructive lifestyle to continue along that path?

The apostle Paul reminded the believers in Thessalonica that he had told them: “If a man will not work, he shall not eat" (2 Thessalonians 3:10). That’s tough love. How do we tell the difference between “will not” and “cannot” in those who are not working? How do we break down the barriers for those who cannot work for various reasons?

Proverbs doesn’t give us many clear-cut answers to these questions, but it does caution us to be on the side of the poor rather than siding with their oppressors. That and the wisdom that comes with the fear of the Lord give us a good place to start.

Thursday, September 21, 2006

The Proverbs 31 Woman

The lesson for Sept 24 includes four verses from Proverbs 31. Ah, the Proverbs 31 woman. I've had a rocky relationship with her through the years. She's so very competent, always on top of things. I am so very incompetent. Mother's Day is her day. Preachers everywhere cite her virtues while we mere mortals cringe at how far we fall short of the standard she sets.

At least that's the way I used to feel. However, as I've become better acquainted with this woman while reading about her every year on my way through Proverbs, I've actually become quite fond of her.

The first step along this journey came when I somehow acquired a copy of Help! I'm Being Intimidated by the Proverbs 31 Woman: My Battles with a Role Model Who's Larger Than Life by Nancy Kennedy (Multnomah Books, 1995). I'm not sure whether the content of the book or the title did me more good. It was simply nice to realize that I was not alone in my negative feelings. Finding an equally intimidated friend in the author allowed me to relax a little with this woman who burns the candle at both ends and has her household under total control.

The next step was at a Ladies' Retreat where Liz Curtis Higgs was the speaker. She pointed out that it was King Lemuel's mother who described this ideal wife. This is the kind of woman the king's mother wants for her son. Did King Lemuel find such a wife? We don't know. We only know that the poor woman he married had a mother-in-law with some fierce expectations.

What finally brought me around to actually learn to love the Proverbs 31 woman was simply reading about her without the extra baggage that comes with Mother's Day sermons. I mean, look at this lady. She is certainly not your common female Bible character. How many times have we heard about the role of women in the Bible? It was a patriarchal society. Women were on the same level as children and slaves. It was scandalous that Jesus spoke to the Samaritan woman in John 4. We hear the role of Bible women described and can picture the cloaked women in modern Islamic fundamentalist societies, faces covered, scooting along in the shadows as second-class citizens.

But look at this Proverbs 31 woman! She doesn't fit the mold. While her husband is chewing the fat down at the city gate (probably involved in politics with more talk than action), she is out wheeling and dealing, buying a field, providing merchants with sashes. She's a business woman and a manager, taking full responsibility for her household. She has staff! The men down at the city gate speak highly of her. The respect they give her husband reflects their respect for her. What a lady! I think I'd like her. Sure, she accomplishes more in a day than I do in a month. I'll introduce my daughters to her so that they can see that their opportunities are not limited by their gender. Here is a woman who demonstrates that we do not have to hide in the shadows. We can use our management skills to their full potential.

The point of the lesson in referring to these verses is respect and honor. There is mutual respect between the Proverbs 31 woman and her husband. She brings him good, not harm. He praises her. Both of them are well thought of down at the city gate. They each enhance the other.

Yep, I like this lady. She's not back in the tent using manipulation in order to get her own way in a patriarchal society like Sarah and Rebekah. She's down at the wharf checking out the latest boatload of merchandise or in her home office planning next month's household schedule.

So, hurrah for the Proverbs 31 woman. You go, girl!

Wednesday, September 20, 2006

21st Century Nazarene Sunday School

After 19 months of random ramblings on my other blog, I think I finally have a theme and a purpose for blogging -- young adult Sunday School.

I lead the young adult Sunday School class at the Odon Church of the Nazarene in Odon, Indiana. Actually, I'm not supposed to call it "Sunday School" because that's an old-fashioned program associated with children. We are officially an "adult Bible fellowship group" or just a "small group". However, since we meet on Sunday mornings at 9:30 am and generally use official Nazarene Sunday School curriculum, I'm calling it Sunday School here. Maybe if I myself were truly a young adult, I would care about the name. But as it turns out, I am more concerned about other things.

We do study the Bible and enjoy adult fellowship, by the way.

My blogging experience to date has taught me several things:

1. Search engines pick up blogs quite easily.

2. People will follow a link to a blog even when it is obviously not the most relevant hit found by a search engine.

3. A surprising number of people end up at a blog site. In just over a year, since attaching a counter to my other blog, there have been over 4,000 hits on it. That's a small number compared to blogs that actually say something, but a satisfying flow of readers as far as I'm concerned. Many have come off the search engines while looking for something else. Others followed links pointing to my blog. A few came looking specifically for me.

So anyway, it seems like maybe it's time to have a blog that says something, that has a purpose. I could rename my other blog, but I might still want to post random ramblings, so I think I'll keep it. Thus, this is a new blog with the following goals:

1. To provide informal commentary on our weekly Sunday School lessons. Currently, we're using the official WordAction adult curriculum from the Nazarene Publishing House.

2. To explore subjects related in some way to the weekly topics (either before or after the Sunday we study them together) in written form.

3. To invite others to participate by leaving comments.

4. To invite those who are interested and close enough to join us on Sunday morning.

As best as those who study such things can determine, only 20% of all blogs are still active after a year. I've beat the odds on one blog. We'll see how this one goes.